@elle Tinker how do I confront them? Do I put myself in the situation of asking them if they were talking about me behind my back and then expect their denial? I guess I’ll move on when I feel safe again, thank you

@Vhanon it wasn’t clear because there is no contract. I now know that some of them are related to other people who bullied me 20 years ago, and they still treat me mean sometimes. Yeah, I would like to know what they would think if that happened to them

well, they’ve been very shady about everything so it’s difficult to make them accountable. I was really scared of making more trouble and they seem cold-heart people prepared to do anything against anyone, but since it also is scary to keep denying the situation I choose to stand up for me. Because I don’t know how long they are going to bother me and try to build a case against me. I don’t know their parents, we are not kids anymore, high school passed a long time ago. Obviously they don’t care and make a lifestyle of that. I won’t put all of these people in the same bag, I can differentiate. There is a ‘girl’ who seem like very stubborn to get into my life, so sad. I’m feeling better now that I can understand what was going on behind my back, at least I’m not blind any longer. Yes, I do practice most of those secrets. thank you both.