Thank you both for your feedback, it feels good to see there are still people who care for others.

I have spoken to her and her feedback was tbe following:

As per her she is independent and can walk away from an ex without using her new boyfriend as an excuse.

She still wants to have her ex as a friend and she is assuring me that she has no more feelings towards him, and she is happy with me.

she doesnt want to cutt her ex out of her life even if this is going to risk our ( current) relationship.

I am confused wether i trust her and continue or break up with her.

I really see some potential in this relationship.

FYI i am 30 years old and she is 29, her ex is 49!

Than you all