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September 24, 2015 at 8:51 am #84008NadiaParticipant
Thank you so much Pearl for your comment, wow, your words ring so true. Even when I was in this past relationship I had a feeling it wasn’t right and that I still had some work to do and like we know all the people in our lives are teachers and I believe this person made me see this. I’ve been thinking about my relationships and I realize that even though I think I love who I am and am happy with who I am there is still part of me that seeks validalition through relationships, and when things don’t work out I take it personally and question my worth.
I’m staying away from dating sites now and trying to focus in working on this issues of self-worth and validation.Much love <3
September 23, 2015 at 12:32 pm #83939NadiaParticipantThank you Jodi and Anita, your comments helped me see things in a different perspective.
September 22, 2015 at 9:44 am #83844NadiaParticipantHi guys!
I recently ended a relationship where the person wasn’t sure of what they wanted and was emotionally unavailable. Even though my intuition kept telling me he wasn’t right for me I kept trying to make it work, but it was like trying to make a square peg fit into a circle shape, useless. Finally, I decided I needed to honor those feelings and myself and confront him about it. I told him he knew who I was and continuing to date like this was not going to help him make up his mind. So I walked away.
I realized the fear of abandonment, of not finding someone better also kept me in this situation pass the expiration date.
So how do we deal with these feelings and trust that we are enough alone but also not to settle for “good enough”?September 22, 2015 at 9:35 am #83843NadiaParticipantHi Jack!
I grew up with a religious background, but the moment I moved out of my parents I began to evolve from the label of a Christian into a Spiritual person. I’ve met many people from various religions that live by these labels but inside are unkind and judgmental people. I decided to focus on becoming the best person I could be and not lose my faith in God and the good in others.
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