Dear Anita

They refer to his status as job, level of education. He isn’t married to mother of his child. I understand he isn’t ideal guy they want for me, but what I want to say is he is good person, takes care of me and loves me. He isn’t a guy that will cheat on me or do stuff to upset me.

He told me he will wait when we broke things off, he said that if I ever want to get back togehter and find way to make things right with parents he will be there. He wants to meet them, explain his intentions and feelings.

Naaz

Dear Anita,
here are answers to your questions

1. I think their reaction will be similar to one they already had – telling me I’m naive, not having trust. I am even scared what would happen with my future, because my father is the one who will pay for my education and such. I don’t want to be punished for being in love.

2. No, but he wanted to meet them.

3. Mostly it’s about his child, they said he’ll get me pregnant and the other is his status, they think I deserve better because he didn’t go into higher education.
(he actually works hard and makes money which I think should be respected)

4. He feels sorry because of what I have to go through. When I felt pressured to choose between him and family, he said he supports whatever my decision is and although I choose family he will wait. He keeps saying he’ll do whatever it takes but I see that he is hurt in a way. Also, I met his family.

Naaz