hiā¦so true.
other thing i found is āexpectationsā ā¦
how expectations can create distancesā¦ur friend wants u to be full time story tellingā¦n complains if u dont share something wrongā¦where u dont thing if something is wrong. or sometimes people try to solve their own problems and does not need constant āstatus updateā to anyone; coz they r no-where inn life. n somehow distances r increased.
i think many of us face the same problem āno-close frnzā but we should also seek āwhyā over here.
as @miniaturebodhisatva toldā¦ we r in life crisisā¦. where we r finding our careers , marriage, sttelementā¦
n other people mi8 be on pg 60 or 100 n we r still on 20ā¦.
so tht is another reason in my caseā¦
though we talkā¦ but there is lack of bonding.
yesterday only i was in tears remembering old days with my bestieā¦ hez now married. but he was more a knda girldfriend i would need.
tension free sharingā¦ fun loving ideasā¦n adventures together.
i think when we ll be in some stable phase of life.. we might get a good frn again.
n if u wantā¦we can be frnzz too
we share our tiny buddha together
cheers.