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PaulaParticipantWell i say just be straight forward and tell how each other feels about the other person. No one is going to know anything if one dose not speak the feelings or thoughts.
PaulaParticipantWow this one sounds familiar to a guy i knew once. Well after the first night of being with her he realized he did love her or want her. I mean for him to claim her but not to inquire to her to let her know is kinda…hmm…..sounds like he wants to take charge of her or own. But it gets kinda complicated…..he might want something else that the girl doesn’t want.. To be in love is to communicate that to the partner but here its more like i want this and i can have it. Insecurity could play a role too. That’s my opinion.
PaulaParticipantOh? Yeah your right I knew there was something wrong from the start but I over looked that. Foolish me. My goodbyes are quick though and I have finished it just need to clean up the left overs.
PaulaParticipantYeah that makes since though I have worked hard to get the game system waiting in line for a hour on black Friday this past holiday. But I understand what I have to do and
let go of this to move on. Its the only way and I have already started but as far as legal matters, I don’t think that’s necessary because he just advise I should go through a
lawyer. He didn’t fill any paper work out or attend the sessions. This is for the accident that I have been through and a claim that I have filed. He just said one day, “oh I think
you should call a lawyer for the accident since your insurance is not covering lost wages and rental”. Also he said “the more sessions you attend the more money you’ll get
out of your settlement”. Now after this later he said you know I should get half right? I’m like what? He says since he helped me stay on it. That’s when we were together but
now apart it is still the same I want my half or at least some since you said yeah, he tells me. He is looking out for himself and wants what little I have left that is for my
accident an bills that are passed due.
PaulaParticipantI see well ill work on it since I have already started by moving and changing my phone number. Ok thanks.
PaulaParticipantYep a work in process…
June 6, 2013 at 12:35 pm in reply to: What do you want to know about meditation? Ask me anything! #36528PaulaParticipantWow that’s how I have been viewing the world for the longest but been told by others I’m crazy or just plain stupid because they don’t understand. As far as meditating, I really
don’t do it on a regular basis but the way I relax is by playing video games. Sometimes based on what others say I say things at the wrong time that don’t make sense or it not
true like “its all in your mind” or “there is nothing I can do to you unless you allow it” Then I’ll say something like you are your own worst enemy and people judge to much to
see things for what they are or what is. Things like that get me on the you don’t know what your talking about and to stop that crazy talk. So how should I go about this?
PaulaParticipantThanks for the insight. I have a boyfriend who is exactly the same and I cant put up with it any longer. Controlling and demanding he even this he owns my car when I’m not driving it. I let him use it but he has gotten to comfortable and now go and come as he please without notifying me of his were abouts. At first he show some sign of it but not as much. Now its all out and really pushing me away. So far I haven’t said anything yet to care of it since I want him nice and comfortable before I strike. I know he anger is from being used and take advantage of. But also he feels his voice needs to be heard since in the past it hasn’t and he was never paid any attention too. I told him once that he should be that way with me and I’m like other people. He doesn’t get it nor did he break his cycle. Do you think he can do (if willing) what you have done?
PaulaParticipantMy thoughts exactly. Here for a moment to indulge in the pleasures of life and sweat in the hardships of it.
PaulaParticipantSo you are in love with a man that has yet to return how he also feels about you. Now you are friends with him, very close friends but you are debating within yourself about your true feelings for him. Did you tell him how you truly feel? Dose he really know? Maybe he doesn’t know and feels your just a close friend. I’m thinking its something inside you that’s conflicting with what your feeling vs what is now. I’m no expert but look within and see what is really troubling you and ask yourself, “Do you know how to express your feelings”. “What’s holding you back”?
PaulaParticipantExactally if nothing in him gave the thought of not reacting that way then what comes next is the end result of that regaurdless of sorries. Never once have i treated him wrong but support him so far. I guess some people just dont get it. Well at least i dont feel crazy about him that i cant let him go like some. Im actually all for it.
PaulaParticipantAlso just yesturday the man actually threaten to slap me when i made a comment about a guy i was talking to just before he picked me up. I told him dose it really matter who he is? Im just making conversation while i wait for you. But that was after i told him he was a teacher of mine in school that i recognized. At the same time he was in pain from an infection in his wisdom tooth. Now i know if i have to tip around and becareful around him then there is no reason for me to be with him. Im not comfortable and im not myself. Im not going to say “oh well his tooth was really hurting and that was the pain talking not him” No way am i buying that! He cant control or tolerate his pain and he dare raise his hand at me? That shouldnt have crossed his mind. I really need to cut this fast since he cant understand nor control himself. Before you know it he would have beaten me and i him if it were to go any futher. No way am i sticking around just to(excuse the language) kick his ass. I try with him but like one person told me “you cant help everyone”.
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