Dear healingnun,
First and foremost, I want you to take a look at yourself in a mirror. See that beautiful girl staring back at you? She is full of life, full of opportunity and full of love. You’re willing to let him take that from you? Not without a fight, I hope!
However I can completely understand how you must feel, breakups are never easy, and they’re never the same to anyone but who is involved. Don’t allow someone to become your whole life. I’m sure before you and your BF got together, you had hobbies and interests of your own too, right? You need to take care of YOU first, no one else girl, just you!
I hope I’m not sounding insensitive, but take this as a learning curve in life. Relationships are a way of learning who you are, what you want and what you don’t out of life.
Just remember that even though it is SO chiché, time heals all.
Best of luck to you,
Ell.