It is very sad to see the amount of people in relationships where their inlaws do not like them.

I too is in the same situation. It use to bother me, but I don’t let it bother me any more. I have two small children who are depending on me, so I need to be strong and focus for them.

I have been married to my husband for 5 years. Things began sour for the sole reason I was not a christian and a church goer. My husband was a dedicated member of his church for many years, but ‘backslide’, and it was during this time that I met him. His family took issue with me because I was an outsider. Over time, they started to warm up to me and things began to go well. A few years later, we are back to the beginning, but this it is not only because I am not a christian but also because they consider me controlling. My husband family is very materialistic, hyprocritical, dramatic, bias, and two-face. The entire family is very distant with each other. Anyway, my husband was the go to guy prior to meeting me, for everything; money, time, and assistance….espcially money, and it seemed like he never said ‘no’. Well, he is the sole provider of our home, and with two toddlers, he definitely have different responsibilities and o ligations than when he was single. His family has proven overtime that they do not care about him or his family, because when they waste their money, they want to run to him to bail them out. I told him that can’t work for his new family because we are not rich, so because they can no longer get access to him and his income, I have become their enemy. My husband seems not to do anything about the situation that has transpire between me and his family, he just brush it under the rug, and seems to expect me to be the one to make amence. I have, in the past, got into verbal disagreements with 2 of his sisters, so there is a lot of tension with those two. His mom is the biggest hyprocrite and devil I know, yet she is the first to shout praises to the almight like she is a Godly woman. In the past, every time my husband got paid, she would text him asking for money. Keep in mind she works, her husband works, and her daughter (who lives at home with her son) also works, but my husband, who is the sole provider of our home, she wants him to give her money! There is a lot to be said, but too much to write and explain. Bottom line is, I hate my husband family and keep my distance. Like many others who have commented, I too constantly feels left out during family events, but atleast I don’t have to deal with fake people.