Hi Niyata,

I have a family member with BPD.  If you had it, you would not be so concerned about having it.  You would think you were justified in any kind of bad behavior towards others and you would never think you were wrong.  The fact that you question it shows that you don’t have it.  Hope that helps.

I’m no therapist, but to me it sounds like you have the issues associated with someone who grew up in a dysfunctional family.  Of course you are moody and angry, if you grew up in an abusive home.  Best think to do would be to start dealing with those issues with a therapist or possible start reading some books on surviving abusive/dysfunctional families.

All the best to you,

Monica