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September 10, 2014 at 3:57 pm #64730MollyKatParticipant
Your perspective is so wonderful and refreshing! I am so sorry about the end of your relationship, but you seem to understand that, while it hurts, it just wasn’t meant to be. I recently ended a relationship and have been feeling a lot of guilt for causing my ex-fiance so much pain by ending it. It sucks, no matter how you look at it.
Thanks so much for posting, because you said some things that I really needed to hear in order to move on from my own breakup. Good luck in the future. I’m sure that when the right woman comes along, you will know it and be ready for her!
September 10, 2014 at 3:43 pm #64727MollyKatParticipantThank you both so much for your replies. It’s been a very tough week. Part of me knows that I made the right decision, the other part is still plagued with guilt and now I’m wondering if I’ll ever find someone again.
I am doing my best to let him go. He told me that he is going to counseling and I hope he follows through and gets help. He deserves to be happy and not feel bad about himself all the time. I last saw him on Sunday when he came to get stuff from my house. He seems to understand that I think we both need to move on, but he’s having trouble accepting that. He cried a lot, especially when I tried to give him back the engagement ring. It gutted me from the inside out, he was sobbing on my shoulder, and I hated hurting him so much. He never took the ring; he said he just couldn’t stand having it right now.
I am doing my best just to move on and be at peace. I want us both to be happy and find “the one” eventually, if that really exists. I just feel like such a horrible person for causing him pain, despite the things that happened between us. I just hope this gets better for both of us.
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