Shantigirl, Just wanted to let you know I am sending white energy light to surround you as you move through grieving and move forward with your life. You are very strong!
Caring
MJ

I had a situation where an employee and myself evaluated each other. I remained professional and neutral or positive. She, on the other hand, was quite negative. I have suffered because of this. I have tried several times to bad mouth her but just can’t bring myself to do so. It is a difficult situation.
Did you give just your professional opinion about this coworker? Did you keep the personal opinions out? That is the best way to do it.