One more tips~
I went to Robert Holden’s Coaching Happiness about a year ago, he said if a person you want to talk to is not ready to talk to you, you could try and send them a spiritual email 🙂 Send a spiritual email to their angels or that person’s higher self and tell that person that you’d really love to work things out with her, please show you when she’s ready to talk 🙂 and their angels and the Universe will arrange things to happen to help her be ready and send you the sign when she is ready to talk 🙂 And remember to send this spiritual email from a place of love 🙂

Hi Lavender!
I saw your post about wanting to fix broken relationships with self & others. And I thought maybe I could share some insights that’s helped me in the past when I went through hardship in life. 🙂
1. No matter what happens in life, we gotta first learn to let go of the blame for ourselves, our life situations, and others. Forgiveness is the very first step to having a better relationship with self and others. We gotta first learn and understand that no matter what happened, we did the best we knew how at the moment and so did others. Everything happens for a reason, if you’d allow yourself to see the gift and the life lesson from the situation, and let it go with gratitude, then you’d be able to free yourself from the emotional burden you’d created for yourself.
2. Second is to stop judging yourself for whatever is going on in your mind and your life. You’re who you are today for a reason, and for a good reason 🙂 You’re a gift to this world. You had to go through a certain experiences in your past to learn certain things, or become the beautiful person that you are today. A lot of challenges in our lives are actually blessings in disguise. And it’s important for all of us to learn to be open to see the gift the Universe wants to bring to us. But we must first let go of the judgment about our life circumstances so we can open ourselves to new perspectives 🙂
3. Stop scarying yourself with your thoughts. A lot of thoughts in our mind are just ”assumption” about what we believe is true about the situation or others. But it’s not necessary true. We gotta let go of our scary thoughts and our assumptions about A LOT of things. What you’re thinking in your head isn’t always true! So stop scarying yourself with your fearful thoughts of ”what ifs” as this won’t help you to get anywhere. Instead, listen to your heart, feel your heart’s guidance. Our heart is the channel to Divine Love, whatever that comes from the place of love is peaceful, relaxing, and joyful. Our heart will guide us to the right place only if we’d just listen 🙂
4. Trust yourself 🙂 Trust that you have the ability to change your life circumstances. Trust that you are the creator of your own life, you’ve created everything in your life and so you have the power to create your life in the way you’d want it to be with your loving intention. Trust that you have the ability to change and be the ”you” you want to be! Trust your gut when your gut says no or when your gut says go forward! go toward the direction of your dream!! Just trust that inner loving voice withing you, we all have it 🙂 we just gotta allow ourselves to feel it and listen to it 🙂
5. Embrace yourself with kinds words and love everyday! You’re the only person who’s gonna be with you 24/7 through out the rest of your life, so it’s important that you be your best friend and your cheerleader 🙂 We always want to be surrounded by loving people, so we can start with ourselves! Every morning when you wake up, take a few minutes to look at yourself in the mirror and say words that you wish you’d heard from your parents, friends, loved ones, society, etc. Often time, we don’t really need to hear these from others, we need to hear this from ourselves the most 🙂
Sending you lots of love and light!