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Dear All,
I understood what you all suggested me but I will tell you why it is difficult for me. I just had a casual talk with my bf and he felt that I am not talking properly with him. He told me that I am his everything and if I take any negative strp or breakup with him then he will be destroyed completely. He is already in depression because of his current marriage and now He says if I don’t support him then he will never be able to set in his life..
Becuase of his condition it always gets difficult for me to leave him in worst situation.
MGParticipant@Michelle your words have hit me hard. When you said that i have no confidence or self esteem it just made me realise that i m being someone who i m not. Your words have given me lot of courage. I am gonna be strong and end it.
MGParticipant@anita thanks for baring a stupid version of me and helping me through. Yes i will end this relation with him. Will take a day to collect the corage and then will do it.
Thanks for your help.
MGParticipantDear Anita,
We are in a relationship. Not the physical relation but yes we are in love with each other. Considering all the things we discussed so far, i am clear that I will have to break up with him so that he can stay happily with his wife and I can move ahead. Now I just need help to understand as how shall I breakup. Shall I update him that we are breaking up and we wont talk or should i slowly stop the chats and then gradually end it?
MGParticipant@Mark, no it is not anything about sex. Its just about all the chats we did and the way we cared for each other. You are right when you say that I have to kust take my decision but I am becoming weak and not able to take that decision. Should i directly go and tell him that we need to end it or should I just gradually slow down everything and eventually stop it?
MGParticipant@Anita..I would like to clarify something here. I am not really afraid of him. I am just afraid that how he will handle himself once I left. Yes he is angry man but he doesnt misbehave with me. He has always been nice to me. Currently I just want to break up all love related relations with him so he can accept his wife and be happy with her. I am a very positive person so I know I will move on and handle myself but I am kust worried of him.
MGParticipantNo I don’t want to be with him but when i see him getting emotional because of me, i don’t understand what to do and i end up going with flow. Should i be hard and just hurt him? Currently i know that I should end this relation but i am not able to take the decision. I am not able to hurt him. Also since we meet every day at office, it is getting even harder.
He is very angry and difficult man.
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