My friend calls when she wants to be heard. I have told her I will not listen to her constant whining about her spouse as well as utilizing me as a sounding board. She has not called the last few days and I am feeling much freer. My friend has her own family and her grandchildren to spend time with. Also, she can be busy with her health care job. I am already letting her go and it is easy for her to friend others. She must find her own happiness and the self-awareness that she actually consumes the energy from others. As for myself, I am on a separate journey apart from hers and I cannot see myself turning back to dance to her tune. I have recently regained my self-worth and renounced those who once walked over me like a doormat. The door on this relationship is now closed.
However, I do appreciate the feedback given to me regarding my post…
Many blessings,
Melinda 🙂