hey ,im kavita… well, i think everybody needs to first love ownself after that they could not fell alone , and about yours relationship , love is not enough to live a life or spending time with a guy our self respect or there behaviour towards us means to if you find that you cant stay in this toxic relationship because you are suffering , there is no mean to stay with him . i know it hards to apart but sometimes it is necessary for both people ! so keep your hand to your heart and close yours eyes and ask yourself , now are you happy with him or are you suffocating then you will find a answer… i dont know the situation exactly but you know if you really find your answer ownself then dont take more time ,leave him!!!!!!

i wish you find any solution of yours probelm ! thanks

Hey katie,

How are you ? Are you overcome that problem…I mean these days all okay… friends n all !!

Hey Victor, first I wanna tell you one thing at end end of our life there is nothing more than relations or our love ones !! Whatever we achieve in our life expect name and fame,example we earn enough money which left in this beautiful earth at the end of our life ,.whatever we take with us is people blessings or place in there heart.. so relations are important or worth !!

But when some relations give us negative vibes and are not comforting is then leave there hands and move forwards and that is life… 

Helo laika… I read all above conversation but I think , your mind is controlling your heart these days , I think you want to be settled with your bf that’s why you are annoying with him and he is not cooperative to be settled in mean he is not working well , trying but not giving 100% .. did you think love is not enough,  need enough money to survive,  your mind is thinking about future and to be settled that’s why you are frustrated and feeling angry on him , you love him but thinking about future,  about him carrer , and feel sad for him which make you cry anger ,…is it correct?

Okay.. oh God… almost this year has gone,

I think tumko apne parents se batt karna chiye or bol do ki vo girl ke ghr marriage proposal lekar jaye… and try open and communicate unko…. try again… I mean tum or tumari family agar proposal lekar jati h unko convince kar lete h tum 2019 m job hogi after completing masters then sayed mn jaye…unki family ko ye bhi samjane ki kosish karna ki kya fayeda ye kisi or ke sath khush nhi rhegi kya app khush rhoge… using emotional intelligence to your parents and her parents too…. hope you understand what I’m saying!!!

• Okay… I understand… you told yours parents to go her parents and communicate girl parents about a marriage proposal…I mean her parents wants to marry a well settled boy okay then I think you should tell your parents to consive her parents. Now yours parents can do anything because her parents don’t want to talk you , but if they can talk  your parents then you must  told your parents and tell then you can’t survive without her , she is your strength n all… hope they understand your situation and try to communicate her parents!!!
• What’s the problem of her parents, is it that you are jobless !!

Thanks anita,

Actually whatever you are feeling and you are facing these days I already faced and i started finding solutions! But I had failed, I learn first to understand the problem which create disturbance to all us mind…

So exactly I want to know the problem, I correctly understood that you are facing pain but what type.,I mean from yours family side and anything else…

Plz explain me more about it..

And the solution first find the exact problem and try to conclude it !! Then you can find a permanent solution…

Ye sb mind ko samjane and it’s all about emotional intelligence!!!!

Kavita ?