How are your kids handling this situation?  I guess my only concerned with your current situation is how the kids see your relationship and you dating other men.  I am also divorced so I understand the hardship or having to move out and be sole provider in my household.

Is there any way you can move in with a family member till you can save up money and get on your feet?

I have deleted my facebook.. I still have instagram and snapchat, but nothing else!  And honestly I don’t miss facebook AT ALL… I had over 800 “friends” and one day realized… I don’t need this extra drama in my life.. the people who over share and put their dirty laundry out there.. no thanks!

I hate going out and going to restaurant and seeing looking at their phones instead of having a face to face conversation!

I agree with Anita I would just tell him!  It’s very unfair to you that this rumor is going around, but I think it would actually take a lot of stress off you if you tell him!  And as Anita said just say it causally if you act worked up then he might sense some doubt!  I think we have all been the center of a rumor in some shape and form and it’s not fun!