Phew. I can’t tell you how much better that makes me feel. I likely have some reflecting to do on and lessons to learn re: what about my personality has allowed this environment to occur. First step – move out and start moving on. Thank you guys for the encouragement and reinforcement.
Thank you so much for your responses! Even just acknowledging the situation with someone else is very helpful for me. Let’s say I am justified in moving my stuff out while he is away. What do I do then? Just wait for him to come home to an empty home? When is the ‘right’ time to tell him? Maybe I shouldn’t feel bad for him… but I do….
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