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FrancoParticipantI forgot to add that even though we had very brief conversations we never formally introduced ourselves but I think it’s a negligible detail, or I introduce myself in the message but I don’t think it’s necessary because the name and surname are already out on social media
FrancoParticipantI was thinking of writing her this message: hello, can I ask you for some information, I saw from your photos that you were in Berlin, since we were organizing a trip with some friends of mine we were thinking of taking it into consideration as a destination, would you recommend it to me? Or write to her directly that I would like it I don’t know how to know her better, tell me. or I know that she is from a small town near mine, I saw that we have mutual friends on social media, I would like to ask these friends if they know her well in person and maybe let me meet her in person, because honestly I don’t feel comfortable where she works
FrancoParticipantI saw from the profile photos that this girl has been to Berlin and other places that I would like to visit, I could ask her for information on these destinations since I was thinking of visiting them, if she recommends them to me and maybe start a conversation from there, or go direct and write I’d like to know you if you like
FrancoParticipantyes last night I Don’t have rested very well because I was thinking of it, I took a nap in the afternoon and now I feel better. we can talk when you want about Emotion Regulation.
a friend of mine the only person who know that I like this girl,after I told what happened yesterday have told me to not catastrophize the event because It happen frequently when a man is interested in a woman to act a little awkward happen to everybody, sometimes talking with a friend is helpful he suggested like you play the card of message her on istagram, but I don’t know what to write to start the conversation, life is short I want to know her =)FrancoParticipantI thank you for your availability, we can talk about it whenever you want. at a certain point I remember pretending to cough out of embarrassment 🙂 even a friend of mine told me not to think about it because it doesn’t mean that girl thinks badly of me and to try contacting her on Instagram
FrancoParticipantMaybe I’ll think about it later, for now I don’t want to think about it for a few days,
FrancoParticipantI had a small talk with her about the commercial transaction
Her colleague was Laughing at me because I acted anxious she looked in my eyes, I dont know what to do, I laugh about it know but in that moment I wished to not have existed
FrancoParticipantI went to the shop where he works with the excuse of refilling but I stopped after a while and got anxious and his colleague started laughing and I think I made a bad impression
FrancoParticipantthanks to you all for the advice
FrancoParticipant- I’ve had some short chat with her, and I was thinking of going to talk in person where she work when she is alone in the shop to break the ice, and after a few days send a message on istagram and tell her that I like to know her better, if She seems interested I will ask her out for a coffe or a drink.
- The rejection hurt so much at the time that I don’t pursued any romantic relationship, in retrospect I know that I shouldn’t react in that way I was young and naive 10 years ago,but insecurities stopped me
- The fear I had In the last years are that girls thinking bad of me because of my lack of experiences
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