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  • January 25, 2018 at 6:42 am in reply to: Healing from abuse! #188887
    ty89
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    Hi Anita!

    True! I will not let her gimmicks affect me. And I will let you know how it goes.

    I feel much better and clear.

    Thank you so much for your time.

     

     

    January 25, 2018 at 6:27 am in reply to: Healing from abuse! #188879
    ty89
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    Hi Anita!

    Agreed! I panic when she starts to make a ruckus. I will try to contact the immigration authority to check what can be done. I was trying to protect myself when she said she would call my office because I don’t want her to ruin my name here.

    Enough is enough. I have decided whatever she says, I am going to completely ignore her. It is okay if she contacts my office, I can handle the sane people here rather trying to deal with an abuser.

    January 25, 2018 at 6:00 am in reply to: Healing from abuse! #188869
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    Well On Monday when she threatened, I did call her and tried to convince her It was not me who blocked her passport. May be its all a lie. I would never know. Also she said she had found a job in the country that I live in by great difficulty and that now I had ruined it.  I don’t want to believe any of it. Because when I asked her to show the letter, she didn’t respond. She said she doesn’t trust me with her documents.

    And yes I went to the police here few days after she left in September, they said they can’t block her entry at immigration but if she comes I should not let her in and call them immediately.

    January 25, 2018 at 5:40 am in reply to: Healing from abuse! #188861
    ty89
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    Hi Anita,

    These days it is very hard to prevent someone from contacting you. She can find my official id on the website and if I block her the mail doesn’t get automatically deleted it just goes and sits in the thrash and also what if she contacts my office.  I am still scared.

     

    January 25, 2018 at 5:09 am in reply to: Healing from abuse! #188849
    ty89
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    Hey Anita!

    Thank you for your kind reply.

    Yes! next time if she comes here, I have no choice but to involve the police. I am going to do that.

    The question is how do I let myself heal? I feel like a victim most of the time.

    October 10, 2017 at 8:24 am in reply to: Relationship in shambles- #172593
    ty89
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    Hi Anita!

    Thank you for your reply 🙂 yes it was the same story before I got into it. I don’t want to go back to her.

    October 10, 2017 at 5:10 am in reply to: Relationship in shambles- #172559
    ty89
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    Thanks inky for your reply. It still feels very wrong on my part to be so brutal in breaking up with her. I feel terrible when she cries but I know I can’t do much. I am tired. I can only hope she heals with time.

    May 9, 2015 at 9:33 am in reply to: confused about my feelings #76495
    ty89
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    Thanks Matt!
    You are right. Thanks again.

    May 9, 2015 at 8:33 am in reply to: confused about my feelings #76491
    ty89
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    Hey Matt!
    Thanks for your comments. Ya may be I do know what I want. I need some space and time. But why would you say you deserve much more than being someone’s escape plans. I truly believe she loves me. It kinda hurt to read that. Am sorry. I just want to know why you said it.

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