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January 25, 2018 at 6:42 am #188887ty89Participant
Hi Anita!
True! I will not let her gimmicks affect me. And I will let you know how it goes.
I feel much better and clear.
Thank you so much for your time.
January 25, 2018 at 6:27 am #188879ty89ParticipantHi Anita!
Agreed! I panic when she starts to make a ruckus. I will try to contact the immigration authority to check what can be done. I was trying to protect myself when she said she would call my office because I don’t want her to ruin my name here.
Enough is enough. I have decided whatever she says, I am going to completely ignore her. It is okay if she contacts my office, I can handle the sane people here rather trying to deal with an abuser.
January 25, 2018 at 6:00 am #188869ty89ParticipantWell On Monday when she threatened, I did call her and tried to convince her It was not me who blocked her passport. May be its all a lie. I would never know. Also she said she had found a job in the country that I live in by great difficulty and that now I had ruined it. I don’t want to believe any of it. Because when I asked her to show the letter, she didn’t respond. She said she doesn’t trust me with her documents.
And yes I went to the police here few days after she left in September, they said they can’t block her entry at immigration but if she comes I should not let her in and call them immediately.
January 25, 2018 at 5:40 am #188861ty89ParticipantHi Anita,
These days it is very hard to prevent someone from contacting you. She can find my official id on the website and if I block her the mail doesn’t get automatically deleted it just goes and sits in the thrash and also what if she contacts my office. I am still scared.
January 25, 2018 at 5:09 am #188849ty89ParticipantHey Anita!
Thank you for your kind reply.
Yes! next time if she comes here, I have no choice but to involve the police. I am going to do that.
The question is how do I let myself heal? I feel like a victim most of the time.
October 10, 2017 at 8:24 am #172593ty89ParticipantHi Anita!
Thank you for your reply 🙂 yes it was the same story before I got into it. I don’t want to go back to her.
October 10, 2017 at 5:10 am #172559ty89ParticipantThanks inky for your reply. It still feels very wrong on my part to be so brutal in breaking up with her. I feel terrible when she cries but I know I can’t do much. I am tired. I can only hope she heals with time.
May 9, 2015 at 9:33 am #76495ty89ParticipantThanks Matt!
You are right. Thanks again.May 9, 2015 at 8:33 am #76491ty89ParticipantHey Matt!
Thanks for your comments. Ya may be I do know what I want. I need some space and time. But why would you say you deserve much more than being someone’s escape plans. I truly believe she loves me. It kinda hurt to read that. Am sorry. I just want to know why you said it. -
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