Dear Anita and Eliana,

Thank you for your thoughtful replies. After reading your replies I self reflected and realised that I am putting this guy or for that matter a lot  of other people’s feelings before mine. So much so that I often neglect my own.
I told him how I felt and that it’s not healthy for me to be in contact with him right now but instead of understanding I need my space he’s been calling and texting me everyday saying he is worried and wants to be there for me without defining our relationship and wants to make me feel better but what he isn’t willing to understand is that this, in fact isn’t making me feel any better.
If I see that he has called or texted, it plays on my mind the entire day and I feel uneasy avoiding him. Seeing his name pop up on my screen brings back all those feelings again often interrupting my personal and work life.

Thank you for your patience and for reading my posts. Happy new year x

• This reply was modified 7 years ago by Alaska.
• This reply was modified 7 years ago by Alaska.