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  • #112909
    Christian Mills
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    Hey Katy, Firstly, how are you feeling? I joined this site reluctantly for support and friendly connections but find it to be kind of just harsh advice? No one really talks, just lecturing. So, how are you? I’m not hitting on you but I’ve had it rough too. Tried the dating scene and hated it. I’m also quite isolated and so badly just want to talk, not be advised or lectured. Just talk to someone who’s feeling the same and needs to talk.

    #112073
    Christian Mills
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    Hey Greenshade, how’s things? I’m as lonely as hell these days. Everything just seems to be going wrong when a few months ago everything was great. Why is life like this?

    #111971
    Christian Mills
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    I know my friend. I’ve been on Citalopram for years. My issue was with anxiety but it kind of spiraled into depression. I’m ok now and my anxiety is manageable. I’m just not that good in busy public places. How are you feeling now? You have friends here you know! You don’t need to be alone with this. What’s your home and work life like? I’m Christian. You have a good day ok

    #111873
    Christian Mills
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    Not a problem Grunfield, good luck, go get her and my thoughts and prayers go with you!!!

    #111864
    Christian Mills
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    My friend, I wish I had words of wisdom for you. I can only wish you the best of luck and hope that things go well. Would joint counselling be an option. Maybe there’s a lack of understanding on both sides? I had anxiety and my partner just didn’t know what to do or act; we split up mostly on that basis. I don’t know? Just all the best my friend.

    #111861
    Christian Mills
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    Hey Greenshade, how old are you? I’m in my 40’s now and for a very long time have felt the same. It’s a real uphill struggle. I’ve just split with my long term girlfriend so now all my negativity is flooding back. Have you ever been on medication?

    #111835
    Christian Mills
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    Are we all wandering around in a dream looking for the x factor, the perfect partner? My partner didn’t exactly have the x factor but I could see possibilities and hope but then she threw it all away. I don’t understand, people just don’t seem to try very hard anymore. Sometimes things are dull, that’s just life : (

    #111820
    Christian Mills
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    I’m finding the loneliness hard!! I go out with friends or go to the gym with friends but still feel alone??? Then, when I am alone, my thoughts attack me. Are you feeling this way? Why do you think that you shouldn’t try again? How long were you together?

    #111796
    Christian Mills
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    Is the pain getting better or worse?

    #111791
    Christian Mills
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    How long has it been since you split up?

    #111790
    Christian Mills
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    Hey Izzy, I’m in that very same position. It sucks and hurts so much!!! I’m laying here in bed and I feel so empty and alone. But my relationship was never going to work either but you miss them so much. I could really do with someone to talk to.

    #111664
    Christian Mills
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    How often do you see this toxic friend?

    #111663
    Christian Mills
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    I just ended up moving away and started again; I just disappeared. Is that maybe an option?

    #111662
    Christian Mills
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    Ahhhhhh, not good or nice but nice to hear I’m not alone!! I’m so sorry that this is your situation but I understand TOTALLY!! I don’t and can’t see my brother because he is constantly trying to make me feel small and pointless. Then, like you, when I shun him he blames me and says I have the problem. I’m sure, like me your heart yearns to have a healthy relationship and know your sibling. I don’t know what to do anymore either. How do you make it back and will it ever be worth it are very big questions!!!

    #111660
    Christian Mills
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    Shit, that’s a tricky one!!! Is your secret really that bad and/or damaging?? I had a friend like that, it was so destructive but I had little to lose. You MUST get out and you’ll feel the biggest weight off your shoulders. Can’t you just ride the storm if this secret gets out? If you have other GOOD friends and family I’m sure they will stand by you and understand? I’d like to think they would?

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