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August 20, 2016 at 11:14 am #112909Christian MillsParticipant
Hey Katy, Firstly, how are you feeling? I joined this site reluctantly for support and friendly connections but find it to be kind of just harsh advice? No one really talks, just lecturing. So, how are you? I’m not hitting on you but I’ve had it rough too. Tried the dating scene and hated it. I’m also quite isolated and so badly just want to talk, not be advised or lectured. Just talk to someone who’s feeling the same and needs to talk.
August 10, 2016 at 12:15 pm #112073Christian MillsParticipantHey Greenshade, how’s things? I’m as lonely as hell these days. Everything just seems to be going wrong when a few months ago everything was great. Why is life like this?
August 8, 2016 at 11:49 pm #111971Christian MillsParticipantI know my friend. I’ve been on Citalopram for years. My issue was with anxiety but it kind of spiraled into depression. I’m ok now and my anxiety is manageable. I’m just not that good in busy public places. How are you feeling now? You have friends here you know! You don’t need to be alone with this. What’s your home and work life like? I’m Christian. You have a good day ok
August 8, 2016 at 12:03 pm #111873Christian MillsParticipantNot a problem Grunfield, good luck, go get her and my thoughts and prayers go with you!!!
August 8, 2016 at 10:46 am #111864Christian MillsParticipantMy friend, I wish I had words of wisdom for you. I can only wish you the best of luck and hope that things go well. Would joint counselling be an option. Maybe there’s a lack of understanding on both sides? I had anxiety and my partner just didn’t know what to do or act; we split up mostly on that basis. I don’t know? Just all the best my friend.
August 8, 2016 at 10:29 am #111861Christian MillsParticipantHey Greenshade, how old are you? I’m in my 40’s now and for a very long time have felt the same. It’s a real uphill struggle. I’ve just split with my long term girlfriend so now all my negativity is flooding back. Have you ever been on medication?
August 8, 2016 at 5:01 am #111835Christian MillsParticipantAre we all wandering around in a dream looking for the x factor, the perfect partner? My partner didn’t exactly have the x factor but I could see possibilities and hope but then she threw it all away. I don’t understand, people just don’t seem to try very hard anymore. Sometimes things are dull, that’s just life : (
August 7, 2016 at 11:01 pm #111820Christian MillsParticipantI’m finding the loneliness hard!! I go out with friends or go to the gym with friends but still feel alone??? Then, when I am alone, my thoughts attack me. Are you feeling this way? Why do you think that you shouldn’t try again? How long were you together?
August 7, 2016 at 3:06 pm #111796Christian MillsParticipantIs the pain getting better or worse?
August 7, 2016 at 1:56 pm #111791Christian MillsParticipantHow long has it been since you split up?
August 7, 2016 at 1:55 pm #111790Christian MillsParticipantHey Izzy, I’m in that very same position. It sucks and hurts so much!!! I’m laying here in bed and I feel so empty and alone. But my relationship was never going to work either but you miss them so much. I could really do with someone to talk to.
August 6, 2016 at 3:40 am #111664Christian MillsParticipantHow often do you see this toxic friend?
August 6, 2016 at 3:39 am #111663Christian MillsParticipantI just ended up moving away and started again; I just disappeared. Is that maybe an option?
August 6, 2016 at 2:56 am #111662Christian MillsParticipantAhhhhhh, not good or nice but nice to hear I’m not alone!! I’m so sorry that this is your situation but I understand TOTALLY!! I don’t and can’t see my brother because he is constantly trying to make me feel small and pointless. Then, like you, when I shun him he blames me and says I have the problem. I’m sure, like me your heart yearns to have a healthy relationship and know your sibling. I don’t know what to do anymore either. How do you make it back and will it ever be worth it are very big questions!!!
August 6, 2016 at 2:46 am #111660Christian MillsParticipantShit, that’s a tricky one!!! Is your secret really that bad and/or damaging?? I had a friend like that, it was so destructive but I had little to lose. You MUST get out and you’ll feel the biggest weight off your shoulders. Can’t you just ride the storm if this secret gets out? If you have other GOOD friends and family I’m sure they will stand by you and understand? I’d like to think they would?
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