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May 29, 2017 at 8:13 pm #151164
jon
ParticipantThank you again for the advice guys and i actually ended up letting her know how i regret not moving further and wished i had at least given us a shot. She asked me why and i explained again and she wants to just be friends. Thats what i was hoping for; an answer to not knowing where exactly we were going. So my situation is complete. thank you for everyones advice and help.
May 28, 2017 at 10:17 pm #151036jon
ParticipantOne thing im curious about is why she would still invite me to her party when she wasn’t talking to me for a week or so before the party and hasn’t talked to me since the party. It was a small party of 5 ppl as well so we were in the same room doing the same stuff together. I thought she maybe wanted to be friends but like i said she hasn’t said a word to me. Â Im thinking if she does want to be friends she’s trying to let our breakup be in the past and have the both of us past it.
May 28, 2017 at 9:27 pm #151026jon
Participantyeah i clearly explained that it was because i was having some anxiety at first and i didn’t want to begin a relationship if that was how i was feeling at the time. I did not want to get into something when i could’ve had the power to end it earlier on to avoid any troubles. Although in hindsight, i feel like i should’ve given this a shot, cause the more i think about it, the more it seems like i really could’ve enjoyed myself. I honestly didn’t give that solid of a reason other than i felt like something “could go wrong”. Â As you said i can use this experience to communicate better with the next woman; when calm and when anxious.
May 28, 2017 at 10:07 am #150968jon
ParticipantIn all honestly it did help. The conclusion is the same no matter how i think about. That is the fact that i made a decision to let this chance go and there nothing to be done after that. Thank you for the advice
Was good to hear from a second voice on the topic.
If anything i can use this experience in the future.
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