Hi Anita, think you for your reply. Yes we are bf and gf. We all live in the same residence. He doesn’t do any babysitting, my daughter is 11 and is pretty independent. My mom and sister live in town, so she goes to them if I’m not home. There is really no where to rent in town. My house is a 2 bedroom. He does okay at work, but really I’m the only one he can work with. The other employees don’t like working with him. He has a bit of a superiority complex when it comes to that place, and he tends to talk down to people. My sister doesn’t particularly like him, so if we break up, I really don’t think she would keep him on even if he was to find a place to live around there.

I know he is a difficult person. And everyone looks at me like I’m the crazy one for taking this on. I thought I could handle it, and maybe I can. I don’t want him hurt. I understand his social anxiety, I have talked to his therapist about his conditions. It just seems tho, in the past year, all I’ve been doing is taking care of him and ignoring myself. And definitely in the last few months that he’s been staying with me, I can’t even find myself. Don’t do the same things I used to, I don’t take care of my health like I used to. I’ve taken on his depression, and I’m afraid of not finding my way out. I tend to absorb peoples moods and emotions, I just don’t know how to separate my emotions from his.