Hi Anita,
Talking toh his mother is not an issue but she already said now she will not meet me as everything is finalised somewhere else. It was very difficult for me but I even involved my mother into this matter so that she can help us convince my boyfriends mother. She is not listening to anyone of us. I am feeling as if my boyfriend is leaving all hopes. But I am still hopeful that I can save him from all this. Still I will try to follow your first suggestion.

Answer to your another question is that yes I will speak to them over phone. That’s the only thing I can do. May be if they get to know that the guy has an affair and loves some one else and this wedding is just a compromise. They might not want their daughter to go through all this and take some step.

Hi Anita

Thanks for help. But the situation is such that his mother is not ready to listen. She said she will leave the house and go. My boyfriend’s dad expired few years ago. That’s the reason he can not leave her alone. I can see my boyfriend’s life becoming hell. I really love him and I can’t let thus happen to him.

The reason I asked that should I tell his fiancee is that they are under impression that my boyfriend is really happy with all this.

If I tell them that he is doing all this forcefully and is not happy may b I could help him out. His life is getting ruined in front of my eyes which I can not see. Or suggest me some alternative so that his fiance back steps as my boyfriend’s mother is never going to agree.

This is not a reply to this post, but actually I am in a similar situation. The only difference is that my boyfriend is engaged and not married as of now. He is not at all happy with this marriage. He wants to be with me but his mother due to an health issue is forcing him into this marriage.We are trying to convince her, but it isn’t work8ng out. Can you please suggest what can we do to stop this marriage.