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  • September 16, 2016 at 12:26 pm #115382
    Anna
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    Hi Anitha
    No they won’t, after knowing the truth if they are marrying that means those people have no issues with him having a girlfriend.

    If issues are there then they should not let this wedding to happen. So it all depends on how they think.

    Tomorrow I will be talking to them about this issue and make them understand the situation. Hope so I am able to do that.

    September 16, 2016 at 2:55 am #115335
    Anna
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    Hi Anita,
    Talking toh his mother is not an issue but she already said now she will not meet me as everything is finalised somewhere else. It was very difficult for me but I even involved my mother into this matter so that she can help us convince my boyfriends mother. She is not listening to anyone of us. I am feeling as if my boyfriend is leaving all hopes. But I am still hopeful that I can save him from all this. Still I will try to follow your first suggestion.

    Answer to your another question is that yes I will speak to them over phone. That’s the only thing I can do. May be if they get to know that the guy has an affair and loves some one else and this wedding is just a compromise. They might not want their daughter to go through all this and take some step.

    September 14, 2016 at 10:54 pm #115224
    Anna
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    Thanks for all the help Anita. I am so glad that at least I can talk to some one about my situations. I spoke to my boyfriend, he is thinking over all this. His mother is not against me and him getting married. The only botheration toh her is that his engagement is already done and now she doesn’t want to say no to those people.
    In such a case if my boyfriend’s fiancee and her family get to know about us and take a step back that can help.

    May be this is risky but I don’t mind being considered a crazy one rather than not trying. I don’t want to regret later that I should have done one effort to help him out.

    Can you help me out on how I should approach about telling g truth to that girls family? I can’t meet them because they are really far. So any suggestions over this.

    September 14, 2016 at 2:03 am #115102
    Anna
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    Hi Anita

    Thanks for help. But the situation is such that his mother is not ready to listen. She said she will leave the house and go. My boyfriend’s dad expired few years ago. That’s the reason he can not leave her alone. I can see my boyfriend’s life becoming hell. I really love him and I can’t let thus happen to him.

    The reason I asked that should I tell his fiancee is that they are under impression that my boyfriend is really happy with all this.

    If I tell them that he is doing all this forcefully and is not happy may b I could help him out. His life is getting ruined in front of my eyes which I can not see. Or suggest me some alternative so that his fiance back steps as my boyfriend’s mother is never going to agree.

    September 13, 2016 at 2:32 am #115056
    Anna
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    Today my mother spoke to his mother but she bluntly said no saying that what will people say if they break the engagement. It will be a huge insult in society. She is not ready to understand that this will ruin 3 lives.
    Should I tell my boyfriend’s fiancee and her family about us. Will this help?

    September 12, 2016 at 12:23 am #114994
    Anna
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    This is not a reply to this post, but actually I am in a similar situation. The only difference is that my boyfriend is engaged and not married as of now. He is not at all happy with this marriage. He wants to be with me but his mother due to an health issue is forcing him into this marriage.We are trying to convince her, but it isn’t work8ng out. Can you please suggest what can we do to stop this marriage.

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