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  • April 10, 2014 at 7:41 am in reply to: How to help heal someone you hurt physically? #54603
    Lance
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    Will,

    Ty, Will, I am but just had a bad thing happen. Everything happens for a reason. Fortunately, I am figuring out why.
    If you’d like to contact me I’d like that.
    Lancesnat@gmail.com

    April 9, 2014 at 11:08 am in reply to: How to help heal someone you hurt physically? #54553
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    Things are on the mend. I am there for her as a friend. We have spent quality time together and we listen first and do not react. Talking in a loving way is helping.
    I give her space she needs and asks for without question.
    She has, I believe, tested me to see if I would react out of anger but she sees I’m hurt, then we talk about it.
    I believe time will heal this.
    I love this woman dearly and have said that I’m sorry more than enough.
    I feel it’s time to move forward and be positive with us.
    She has a few weeks of high stress to deal with including her son’s college graduation where she will drive from NY to Pa with her ex. I do trust her so it’s not an issue.
    All I can do is show her I support and love her and be the man she fell for in the beginning.

    April 4, 2014 at 8:54 am in reply to: How to help heal someone you hurt physically? #54183
    Lance
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    Ty Will… Was I being sexist? Do let me know how so I can recognize it.
    We have been talking and seeing one another. I listen without passing judgement no matter what she has to say.
    This site has some great healing exercises and I’ve learned how to filter my jealousy and know it’s not about me.
    If she can’t talk about other issues in her life, right now, all I can do is support her.
    Being a true friend is what I am now but then she does go elsewhere with it.
    It’s a day to day experience for sure.
    I’d love to talk to you more, if there’s a way?

    Lance

    April 2, 2014 at 5:33 pm in reply to: How to help heal someone you hurt physically? #54043
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    I have not drank since the incident and I told her we need to communicate about everything and not harbor it. TY JMHO

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