I understand what you mean and I think you’re right on some things. The problem is that she doesn’t do anything to get help. I think this is a problem that I can’t help her solve since it is in her mind. It would probably be a psychiatrist’s job to help her. I would be happy to support her through this, but she won’t get help and I can’t force her to get help. Whenever I tried to suggest her to see a professional, she would get angry unless it was after a big argument. After those arguments she was always acknowledging that she would probably need some help, but as I stated, she never actually got help. I love the girl, but when her “problem” comes to the surface, she is not the same girl and it’s destroying both of us. I’d like to think that things will change, but I’ve been telling this to myself for the last couple months and nothing changed.

• This reply was modified 11 years, 2 months ago by Hugo Laliberté.