I am doing the same thing. While it is still new, we fought a lot. It was because of my insecurities, in which I’d bring up issues where he wasn’t texting me enough, when we were going to hang out, and it always seemed I wanted more from him than he was willing to give me. Though we were only together a couple months, we were never boyfriend and girlfriend, and I fell for him. I am the one that is left to put everything back together, as far as emotions and hurt go. He says he cares, but he doesn’t care enough to give me another chance, or want to be with me again. For me that’s very difficult to accept, because he wanted to be friends, but not date. I am coming to terms with the fact that it is very likely that he didn’t want to be with me as much as I wanted to be with him, and I am going to have to let that go. I know that even though we fought about small things, they were big enough for me to see them as issues. Even though I know he is not the one for me, it still hurts, and it will be even more difficult for me to let people in, in the future. The only thing I can say is to take it one day at a time. I hope that because there is a lack of fulfillment in these relationships that we find and soon end, there is someone out there who make us feel fulfilled, and as if all the pieces fit. We won’t have to wonder, because we’ll know. At least I hope that’s how it works.