Thank you both so much for taking the time to reply.  I know all of these things logically, I just can’t seem to keep my emotions in check and inline with my head.   Anita you make a lot of good points, I will read them all again.  Brandy, thank you so much, makes a lot of sense.  And he is amazing.  Thanks again
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