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Krista JenningsParticipant
Hi,
I think that you need to focus on yourself and I know it’s hard when you see other people doing amazing things with their lives and you would like to do that. But I think you first need to start with a plan of action first. Deciding what exactly do you want and being very clear about it. While being very clear about it, you also need to acknowledge and truly believe that you deserve all the great things you want in your life.
I know all of this from experience.
I’d like to hear more about your progress. Be sure to comment again down below.
Krista JenningsParticipantAndreea, you need to be true to yourself. What is that Andreea wants? What do you think is the best thing for you to do? Remember you need to put yourself first and be true to your needs and the betterment of your life. If this person is to be apart of your life, he would gladly take into consideration your thoughts and your feelings towards him still having his profile online.
From my experience, when a guy is really interested in me and really wants to get to know me. He is willing to take into consideration my feelings and my thoughts on most matters. I believe you would do the same.
I don’t think you are being crazy or jealous. You’re letting him know exactly how you feel.
There isn’t anything wrong with that.
All the best,
Krista 🙂Krista JenningsParticipantHere is the link – I hope I don’t get kicked out for sharing — freefromperefect(dot)com
Krista JenningsParticipantSarah, Keep fighting!
Krista JenningsParticipantHello Charlotte.
I think that you are very critical as you are able to see things that not many people would be able to see while being invested in such a situation. I don’t know the entire story. But I would suggest that you be kind and true to yourself. Do you see things changing in the near future? Is this affecting your joy and motivation to do the things that really matter to you? If you’re still uncertain, you may need to step back from the entire situation to get more clarity. At the end of the day, you need to be more kind to yourself and be true to your needs and your horizon. All the best with this.
Krista
Krista JenningsParticipantJessica, you’ll do fine! Give your self ample time to get pass this obstacle.
Krista JenningsParticipantI totally agree with Jessica! I hope it works out well for you!
Krista JenningsParticipantThat is a tough position that you have been put in. I can’t say I can relate. But you need to be honest with yourself – which is a very vulnerable space to get into. With that in mind, be good to yourself. Take care of your self. Exercise, Eat and Enjoy your own company. I know it’s easier said than done. But take it one step at a time and be good to yourself along the way.
All the best!
Krista JenningsParticipantBe good to yourself. I understand that there are mixed feelings. Be honest – which is being vulnerable.
August 27, 2014 at 8:17 pm in reply to: Feeling ashamed and not being able to forgive myself. #64032Krista JenningsParticipantHarmony, first of all you are one brave woman. God Bless you! I think that taking steps each day to forgive yourself is important. I usually first start with gratitude. I know sometimes gratitude can highlight the disconnect between where you want to be and where you are but it sheds some light and perspective. Be good to yourself. You are the center of your own happiness and strive for a healthy and wholesome relationship with yourself.
Krista JenningsParticipantEvelyn, keep pushing forward. Good things are in the making.
Krista JenningsParticipantLori, I can only imagine how you’re feeling. I think its important to have a mindset shift. You are fortunate to have food, shelter and access to the internet. It’s completely up to you to change the way that you think about yourself. I don’t know the details of your life. But I would suggest, start by analyzing the relationship with yourself. You are the most important person, don’t forget that or loose sight of that. Everyday is a new day and an opportunity to be grateful for yourself. You are fearfully and wonderfully made.
I would also suggest, that you not focus on being the best LORI you can be. Not getting the old self back. The old is in the past, what you can control and where you have have immense change is on today. This very moment.
I hope this helps.
All the best!
With Grace,
KristaKrista JenningsParticipantStephanie, Yes I did start the business. Working on it right now 🙂 I’m creating a platform for women seeking to overcome perfectionism and inject more balance in their lives 🙂
A lot go the times, we fail to take bold action in our lives because we want things to be perfect.
I would post the website here. But I’m not sure if that’s allowed.
With Grace,
KristaKrista JenningsParticipantHi Stephanie!
High five for sharing this!
I can definitely relate. I felt that way constantly for 4+ years and I prayed ALOT. Read, listened to podcast and I knew I had to make changes in my life to become more happy. Luckily for me- I was laid of from my job. But before that I was eager and really wanted to start my own business. I had planned my exit strategy and though that wasn’t actualized. I took on the challenge- with little security and a bit of fear. But highly determined to embrace a happier and healthier life.
With grace,
KristaKrista JenningsParticipantThank you for sharing your story. You are VERY brave. The truth is important to all the relationships that you have, but more importantly for the relationship you have with yourself.
All the best!
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