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jockParticipant
Hey Anita
With this skill in analysis, you wouldn’t need to visit a therapist yourself, would you?
I mean you have already sorted all your own issues out, I would imagine.jockParticipantget others opinion here but I’d say before study is good.
if you have time do it after as well, no harm ๐jockParticipantDonโt feel like youโre being torn between the two, embrace both of them.
very helpful, thanks
jockParticipantanita
your reference to being glad you weren’t the one getting the beating as a child reminds me of school in the sixtees.
at my private school almost everyone got hit by the teacher and I felt the same thing. “Oh glad it’s not me this time”jockParticipantAnita
now I get it thanks ๐
Moon
keep doin what ya doin, it seems to be workin ๐jockParticipantHey Moon
But now I’m comparing myself to you, and you come way out in front. ๐
But I’m glad you are doing well. Your self-talk sounds very healthy.jockParticipantbut truth be said, the problem wasnt them. The problem was with me
The neurotic part wants a break. he’s tired of taking the blame… ๐
jockParticipantI think Expect too Much Eric is a result of the healthy part of Jackโs superego that realizes expecting what is not realistic is well, not realistic and will bring disappointment and ineffective behavior
Don’t quite understand this part Anita but thanks anyway.
jockParticipantI’ve inadvertently created a monster inside me that reminds me of my older brother(s), but he’s my version. So he is much worse than my brothers were or are in real life now.. Marvin the Monster. More info later.
jockParticipantsorry
jockParticipantI’ve never liked fakeness in other people though, even they are pretending to be confident and the role requires it. I just wish people would leave their masks at home. Expect too much I admit.
jockParticipantAnita
I think a part of me is a version of one of my older brothers, their worst aspects when they were bullying me.(monster?) Like a cross between Pious Pete, and someone else who like the superego you mentioned who is in charge of social skills.
I’m surprised you think Ruminator Ron is one of the good guys.
Fed up Fred reminds me of one of my impatient older brothers. Doesn’t suffer fools gladly. I like to think that is a very small part of the real me.jockParticipantnice posts pomp and anita
you guys are really helping me a lot
I’ll get back to you on this
I need to rub my aching back muscles unfort. ๐jockParticipantAlright , don’t take me literally then ๐
jockParticipanthey lori
did I ask you about your porpoise? How is he by the way? -
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