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  • December 15, 2015 at 4:01 pm in reply to: Grieving the loss of my clan #89756
    jock
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    a soul’s journey is always alone. I suspect you’re right. How sad though!

    December 11, 2015 at 5:48 pm in reply to: The Healing Path #89495
    jock
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    As I said you are the expert on you. I thought you may want to know my perspective, that’s all.
    Hope I didn’t come across as an ignorant,insensitive , smart a…

    December 11, 2015 at 5:13 pm in reply to: The Healing Path #89481
    jock
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    Anita
    May I comment on your relationship with your mother?
    But it doesn’t matter what I think, as you are the expert.

    Just from my perspective, she lives on, in your mind. She wins by pre-occupying your thoughts now.
    Mild in comparison, are the bullies in my mind. At least, one bully takes over from another.
    It makes my mind boggle, how much damage one person can do. ie.your mother

    December 11, 2015 at 4:52 pm in reply to: Do you see your life as a gift? #89477
    jock
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    As if there is something else than me or bigger than me

    The danger being that if we don’t believe there is something bigger than ourselves, we come to see our own ego as God.
    Humility and gratitude are key ingredients for happiness and contentment, in my opinion.

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    December 11, 2015 at 12:35 pm in reply to: The Healing Path #89464
    jock
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    Pam
    sorry to hear your circumstances.
    I send my support though I know its not enough.

    December 10, 2015 at 3:10 pm in reply to: An indefinite break #89422
    jock
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    hope my partner isn’t copying and pasting my emails and sending them to open forums for discussion

    December 9, 2015 at 11:06 pm in reply to: My Dog Died, I'm crushed with Guilt. #89384
    jock
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    Being a dog lover I feel for anyone who loses their dear canine. I don’t have the confidence to cut my dog’s nails so get them done by a vet assistant every few months.
    Sounds like your dog got a way above average good deal, so I wouldn’t feel bad. Some owners don’t even walk their dog at all.
    I know I won’t handle the loss of my dog well.
    They are just 4 legged love legends. They are the best therapy too. Sorry to hear your loss. get another one maybe?

    December 9, 2015 at 8:30 pm in reply to: Current Affairs #89382
    jock
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    yeah kim K
    why not!

    December 9, 2015 at 8:20 pm in reply to: Current Affairs #89378
    jock
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    I’m thoroughly ugly.
    Edit…I mean
    I thoroughly agree.

    December 9, 2015 at 8:17 pm in reply to: How passive are you? #89372
    jock
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    Is anita a legend?
    or just a myth?
    I’m looking for a word
    that goes with
    “with”

    December 9, 2015 at 8:12 pm in reply to: How to live this moment! #89369
    jock
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    a bit vague to be honest but welcome anyway to the forum.
    We all have to spend some of the present planning for the future. As long as we are not worrying about the future too much or obsessing.
    Next week’s doctor’s appointment?
    Christmas Day’s plan?
    New Year?
    I f we only spend time focussing strictly on the present, we become totally unprepared for the future, in my opinion.

    December 9, 2015 at 8:07 pm in reply to: How passive are you? #89365
    jock
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    cheers anita
    you’re a legend!

    December 9, 2015 at 8:04 pm in reply to: Current Affairs #89362
    jock
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    It’s time to dump
    Donald Trump
    So black and white
    his lack of sight
    don’t let Muslims
    into the States?
    anyone else?
    he purely hates?

    he’d be funny
    if he was being a standup comic
    but he actually wants to win
    he’s more of a caricature than
    Bush Junior

    December 9, 2015 at 7:53 pm in reply to: How passive are you? #89358
    jock
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    L’il ol threadmaker me. 🙂
    thanks inky and anita.
    it’s been hard because passivity comes so naturally to me. I was rewarded for passive behaviour as a child. There were plenty of active leaders amongst my older siblings.
    Goes hand in hand with people-pleasing. Not being a burden. Don’t steal the limelight.
    Perhaps that explains my borderline narcissistic behaviour on here! 🙂 I’m just catching up..

    December 9, 2015 at 11:44 am in reply to: What to do?? (May contain triggers) #89308
    jock
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    Don’t be emotionally blackmailed by him.
    I think the current situation might be caused by you not being honest about yourself when communicating to him. “Listen I can’t stand this anymore. If you don’t get your act together soon, I’m going to ask you to leave.” have you said something like that yet?
    My feeling too is that you’ve fallen out of love with him long ago. This could be one of those “rescuer/victim” relationships, that doesn’t stand the test of time.
    Then learn something from this, before you enter another relationship.

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