@anita: Thank you for your reply! He broke up with me because he said “that’s how he is”. He did mention quite a few times before that his previous relationships only last for 3 weeks and that he gets bored easily and he was always the one to say goodbye and he never dated anyone longer than me. What upsets me the most is that he made me think I’m the one for him as he let me see the sides of him he never showed anyone before and he said “I really thought I could be in a long-term relationship this time” when he broke up with me. He didn’t text me for a whole week but when I asked if something was wrong, he just said he had some work at uni that was really stressing him out and that I was just overthinking. Finally, when I wanted to meet or call him just so we could breakup properly, he refused to.

@Magoolina: Your words are so kind! I was starting to get over him but ever since he texted me on May 31st, it feels like I’m going through the first few stages of breakup again as I kept on waiting for his texts and crying. Going out with friends does help me somehow but there are days when my depression hit me and I can only stay in bed and again, mourning over him.

I decided to text him for the last time so that I could get rid of the regrets and the what-ifs from acting cold towards him and wish him a happy birthday and I’ll just let fate decide what’s best for us.

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