Tessa,

I’m just reading this now, and it sounds a lot like me. I’m 20 years old, and long story short have a lot on my plate right now. I recently went through a breakup with someone I thought felt as intensely about me as I did about them, but did not. Now I’m doubting myself and my personality; with everyone telling me I’m too intense. I know most people my age aren’t focused on finding love, but if I’m honest with myself I am. I’m just unsure of everything.