LOL. Good one, Matt! Thanks!

You say, “I wasn’t looking for condemnation and judgement, which is what I feel from you both.” When you post in a forum looking for comments and opinions you have to be prepared for condemnation and judgement. You are correct in feeling that from me. You have not misinterpreted this. However, you seem to be only looking for people to agree with you and support you. That is not me. Therefore, I will no longer follow this thread. Good luck in justifying your position, rather than truly considering it and evaluating it.

I have nothing good to say about this situation. You are being terribly unfair to your husband. Perhaps if you devoted the time and attention and thought to him that you do to this other individual you would find some peace. Instead, you are hurting him in ways in which he will never recover. It is a shame, really.