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  • November 28, 2018 at 9:16 pm #266533
    Jessica512
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    I hope you are right Anita.

    I need to find a way to accept her decision and that love is not the only thing needed in a relationship.

    November 28, 2018 at 9:30 am #265109
    Jessica512
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    Thank you as well Anita.

    We did discuss that we both did not need a marriage or children. We had decided to stay living separately and when she was ready and my son done university we would then build our dream home on her acreage. And I would rent out my condo.

    She had brought up the living together as roommates as something that she needed. I had said that was not a problem for me as I would like for her to have love and her family and community.

     

    November 28, 2018 at 9:25 am #265107
    Jessica512
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    Thank you for your insight Inky,

    I do understand all of those things and in discussions before we started the relationship I was very understanding and would never ask her to go against anything.

    I wouldn’t ask anyone to give up everything for me. I think that it is just sad that she cannot have real love because of the life she was born into.

    I think I probably do have to let the whole thing go and if she ever comes back then I will have a decision to make.

    The pain of missing her is more intense than I have ever dealt with. Maybe because I knew what we had and appreciated every second.

     

    November 27, 2018 at 3:33 pm #261501
    Jessica512
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    She just turned 29 today and lives near her parents on an acreage buy iis surrounded by her church community constantly.  I am her 3rd relationship but only the first where she did not have the pressure of being asked for marriage and kids. I am 39 and we had talked a lot about what type of relationship was possible for her and what had happened in the other relationships.  We were planning to travel together and  build our dream house on her acreage. I was fine with being her roommate to her family.

     

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