Hi CM….what do you think it says about you that you believe that a woman who cheated on you multiple times and had such little regard for you then…”completes” you now? It might be a good time to look inside of yourself and find a way to work on or get help for whatever is driving you to act the way you have been along with allowing someone who was toxic for you then, back into your life now. What you have for her sounds more like an obsession or a need to get what she never gave you before and probably still can’t give you now – or at least not long term.

You can’t build a relationship that was already broken to begin with on the bones of another broken relationship (your marriage). And the fact that you even said that you loved this woman in front of your wife? How hurtful that must have been for your wife to hear. And for you to be okay to say that without concern or care for her speaks a lot to looking again at what’s going on with you and why you chose to do what you did then and why you are on a path that appears to be heading for a heartbreak again now.

You are with someone who breeds nothing but insecurity within you. Right? To have a relationship, a healthy one, there has to be a solid foundation to build upon. I don’t see that here. Do you?