Annie, thank you so much. You have given me a lot to examine. I am going through a tough time. I think it’s coming to a point where I need to end the online “relationship”. Even though I have these strong feelings, it’s not real to me if I can’t meet him in person. He once said he was in love me. We have shared pictures and do voice chat often. But never video. He did tell me that just Skyping with me even once would be all it takes to make things complicated for us. Meaning, the distance between us. As if he was doing it for my benefit?? To save me the pain and suffering from a long distance relationship. Isn’t he jumping the gun a bit? He seems so sure that we are a match even not meeting in person?? I’m just trying to meet him. Why is he making this complicated?

Brian, I think he is hiding something. Thank you for sharing that information. Was there anything she could have said or done that would have made you feel more comfortable being yourself around her?

Moongal, thank you for sharing that. Validates the feelings I have that it could potentially turn into a relationship. But not if he’s unwilling to.

Inky, he is very attractive to me according to the pictures he shared with me. He says they are his real pictures. He is actually younger than I am by a few years. Of course, he could be lying but I don’t get the sense that he is lying about stuff like that. I do feel he is hiding something though.