I also want to add that he smokes weed and gets drunk almost every week with his friends. Its their weekly thing. Also, he’s lost a lot of weight recently (looks way too thin/this happened a bit before our breakup), has a lot of facial hair that looks almost out of control, and “off” appearance about him (not against facial hair, it just looks outta control kinda). And, he made his profile pic of him and his new gf. She’s hanging on him and he’s just standing there smiling. He’s not the type of person who likes changing his profile pic to one of him and his partner (i know becuz I asked him to do that once for us when we were together and he liked the pic he already had), so maybe he’s “pushing” this relationship and trying to appear happy? Also, he thinks he only needs an associate degree in business to do anything to make him a lot of money in life and he’s had three different jobs in the past few yrs or so (not against ppl who don’t do school or change jobs). Is he just an unhappy person? Is it me? He told me when I got upset about him leaving me for someone else that it was all my fault, that I only had myself to blame for being hurt, that I treated him terribly, and that he doesn’t have a weed problem. But i fell like he does. I know he’s no catch and I deserve better, but I’m blinded by love. Please help. Answer as kindly as you can please and thank you. I appreciate any insight.

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• This reply was modified 8 years, 7 months ago by Jen.