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  • March 28, 2018 at 9:48 am #199821
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    Thank you all for taking the time to respond.

    The general feedback I get when I open up to friends about this is to stop focusing on dating so much. I have a healthy and active social life, supportive family and many authentic friends. I have to work on filling my time better to switch my focus.

    Also wanted to mention that I’ve experience s this frustration whether or not the nature of the new relationship is physical or not.

    Anyway thank you guys for responding, I’ll always check this for any other advice you have.

    March 27, 2018 at 3:03 pm #199753
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    Thanks for the questions Anita.

    In the most recent experiences, I’ve gotten more courage to be more transparent with my feelings and asked difficult questions I wouldn’t have before.

    The answers have been things like “I am trying to move cities soon so I don’t want to get attached.”

    I guess my biggest frustration is why men speak in the beginning, promising all sorts of things only to completly change their tone weeks later.

    I wish I weren’t so dependent on men’s approval for validation. And since I can’t get past that point I can’t help it not effect my self esteem.

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