I grew up with an older brother but I was born with kidney problems, so I was always given preferential treatment and favored.  I don’t know where these issues are coming from.

I just found out last night that she has already started dating another guy, only nine days after our relationship ended.  I can’t believe it.  I feel like I was tossed aside, or maybe even she was building the relationship with him during our time together – though I doubt it as I found no evidence on her phone anywhere.  She seemed to have a good time too, but she wouldn’t tell me who she was with.  I tried to call her last night many times because I thought we were both grieving and had become friends, but she already started seeing somebody and has now moved on.  I don’t feel anywhere near that point and I was the dumper.