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  • July 5, 2018 at 1:07 am in reply to: The Struggle #215497
    Jane
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    You just have to take it one day at a time. It won’t be easy. Years from now you will probably still crave it. But, you’re making the right choice and I truly believe that your life will be better for it. Alcoholism ultimately killed my father two years ago. He refused to ever admit that he had a problem. You’re already doing better than him.

    Jane

    July 4, 2018 at 8:06 pm in reply to: It's Complicated. #215465
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    Dear Anita,

    If I am being completely honest. when I said that “not even ten minutes went by” it is completely possible that I am wrong. It felt like less than 10 minutes. But it could have been longer.

    In my second post, I did mention that I still talk to Jenna. However, I never did talk to her about Trevor. Right after it happened I was so confused and upset that I couldn’t bring myself to talk about it with her, or anyone for that matter. As the months progressed I felt like there was no way to naturally bring it up in conversation. So, though I could have confided in her, I was so embarrassed and in my head that I felt I couldn’t.

    Jane

    July 2, 2018 at 4:22 pm in reply to: It's Complicated. #215193
    Jane
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    Mark,

    It was about two years ago. I turned 17 this past February.

    I probably should go to therapy; unfortunately I don’t currently have the funds. I’ve never thought of  looking into my local sexual assault resource center though. I’ll give that a try. Thank you.

    Jane

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    July 2, 2018 at 2:13 pm in reply to: It's Complicated. #215173
    Jane
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    Dear Anita,

    I’m sorry that my writing wasn’t as clear as I had hoped it would be. I’m not the best at articulating my thoughts. I left out most of the details of the party because I didn’t think they were important, but during that night I was talking to most of the people there. They were sophomores going into their junior year for the most part (including Trevor). Jenna and I were freshman going into our sophomore year. I still talk to Jenna occasionally. She is a very sweet girl but we aren’t very close. I have never spoken to or seen the boys from the party after that night.

    I hope this clears thing up. I really appreciate you responding.

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