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He never physically abused me or anything, I suppose it was the tone of the argument. I cant quite describe it but it was scary and it somewhat triggered me, like he was being condescending or something. The arguments were just about things like me teasing him about keeping old clothes or other simple things that shouldn’t matter. They’re just awful because I care about him so much and he acted like he didnt care about me, and I guess that really hurt me. I feel like what I said was calm and respectful but what he said was pretty rude (i don’t want to get into it).
No screaming, nothing like that. It was just really hard to go through which I suppose made it awful.

Thanks,
J

We have partially made up and are now friends. My question about if what I did was the right this was referring to the fact that I ended the bestest friendship. Do you think it was something that will benifit me?

When I said he was a monster, I mean he became a scary character. He never swears, but swore at me loudly after I suggested just being good friends. Also, about a week ago, he texted Kendall that I was a “pretty awful person”. I don’t know if he has always been like this or if something has changed, but he’s been really rude to me lately, and purposefully hurting me. He said really hurtful things (I’d have to dig through text messages and think hard about what he said). I don’t remember excactly what he said, but I remember how much it hurt.

thanks,
Jenna

Andy and I never had more than a friendship. I don’t think he ever really had those feelings for me, which I was okay with. I only wanted to be friends. We had a pretty rocky and rough relationship, but we always wanted to work things out. We both over think a lot of things, and that lead to a lot of hurt feelings, so it was hard to maintain that kind of relationship.

I was really upset with Kendall, until about a month ago I decided to make peace with her and asked to be friends again, and she was happy with that. Ever since then we’ve been friends. I never talked to her about my jealousy, because it kind of embarrassed by it. But she does know that it hurt me greatly every time Andy left me to be with her. She and I are both in the same sport and age group, and she always gets pretty upset at me because I win and beat her. So I think the jealously goes both ways, which probably isn’t too great in a friendship.

Also, I forgot too add that I let go of my bestest friendship with Andy because he caused me more pain than happiness (just wanted to clear that up a bit).

Thanks,
Jenna