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  • #101193
    anonymous
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    So how do we overcome this sort of fear .?

    #101177
    anonymous
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    I have the same problem, I think we will get over with time , instead m diverting myself into hobbies like singing travelling dancing etc . Exercise can help a lot , you need to be consistent about it though . Let me know if you get better suggestions. 🙂

    #101109
    anonymous
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    Be happy

    #101107
    anonymous
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    Looks like he is not a happy person to me it might not be relationship but something else that must be bothering him deeply which he doesn’t want to share.
    See if u can be frns with him if u really like him, if he is happy with other girl I t hink fir his happiness u should let him go no matter what , that’s life and by doing that u will be a bigger n better person. I know being let down hurts but it’s just that it’s for your good. Learn from ur mistakes n continue to be positive u will end up in something that will last for lifetime all the best and cheers 🙂

    #88790
    anonymous
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    Hi anita,

    I truly understand that there is more to it but how can I forget this??? This has totally broken me n as days pass by I still wake up feeling empty. N him just treating me as a waste piece. How can I move on when something so irrelevant happend, I really don’t know why m so hurt n the issue isn’t resolved. Coz there is no justice to this n the fact is that m a bad person and I m being punished for my deeds is thus true??? Did I mean bad for him when I said I loved him was i selfish??? Is this the result of my karma? He isn’t even sparing a single thought on what has happened d to me?? Infa c the he is happy that m suffering he is happy that I m undervalued he is happy that he left me n is in peace someto.especially I thinknow of revenge buthe there is nothing I can do , truth is someone treated me like waste n dumped me despite of me being a successful n independent professional how is this even fair??

    #88553
    anonymous
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    There is like nothing else I can do to make him feel that he missed a valuable person. Coz he married someone he genuinely loved. N there is like nothing God will do to put him on shame for insulting me.

    #88552
    anonymous
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    Hi mike/ jas,

    That guy I mentioned in the post above is happily married n settled. N in no way he will think or care about me. But here my parents are sad ,n upset n I think back n cry as to why things don’t work in my favor. My problem is I shared my heart break with everyone ND it came back at me with i myself tarnishing my own image. I feel guilty about being such a fool n not courageous enough to wait for what I deserve. It’s like I wasn’t smart enough to hide my mistakes or anything bad that happend to me. It’s totally like I have foul mouthed myself. N he is there living peacefully n happily with his wife with all the love n care. Did I deserve this??? Did I deserve to be punished for loving someone so badly n then I myself tarnishing my image??? Everytime u think in myself I see him pointing mistakes in me n insulting me fir who I am this happens in my head though . It’s like I stopped loving myself completely after he left me. I lost my own value in my own eyes. In fact the moment I figured out that I was the reason why he broke up with me it was my impatience that resulted in him leaving me I couldn’t forgive myself for it. He was a man who needed space n that’s what was attracted me to him n I dint respect his space I believe. Where as his wide exactly knows his feelings n gives him ample support n that’s what makes their relationship ideal . N I feel bad that I was not mature enuf to be cool n wait until things fell in right place. How do I over email this??? Can anyone plz help me????

    #67541
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    I would say give ur self sometime on thinking whether ur a good match or not. But at this moment since ur his gf he needs you most..please dont ditch somebody because they are in a bad situation. I donot think it is the right time for judgement. Please be with him as his strength and support. Just an advice rest is in ur hands.

    #66987
    anonymous
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    Trust me I am also facing the same situation. Please help come out of it.

    #58632
    anonymous
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    s I tried to reach out to him and his uncle to stop trashing things about me..coz i have made mistakes which are really foolish enough..i just lost my selfrespect and i feel very helpless my parents cant even defend me or feel proud of me..what do i do?

    #58535
    anonymous
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    Hi Hope56.

    Cutting of the contact with that co worker was the right thing to do.. itseems you are missing something in ur marriage please fix it talk with your husband and try to correct it. that fling was anyway not worth it anymore.

    #58507
    anonymous
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    Honestly please accept that he is gone , please move on.. u may find a better person.

    #58443
    anonymous
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    Yes I do thanks a lot!!

    #58440
    anonymous
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    But what about him tarnishing my image infront of his relatives and family frns???? he is spreading a very negative vibe which he is not ashamed of himself on.

    #58412
    anonymous
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    Hi Jas/anyone,
    awaiting your reply!!!

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