Hi, I have been in a relationship from last 4 years.. it was all gud, but from last one year from the time I swithed my job to a company which comes in top 4 ,, he started behaving differently. He says I did not ask him before resigning and I resigned with the push from my teammates. from the day I resigned he started torturing me, abuing me and my family , sometimes physical torture too.. and he says its all I deserve it..

he don’t like me talking to any guy in my team , he don’t like me going out with my friends, and he always ask me to block people to whom I talk.

once upon a time when I told the whole story to my best friend , he physically abused me that why did I tell her all this and blocked her from my phone.

he is still same, he push me everyday to resign from my new company, torture me saying that he will thrash me. he don’t let me do my job, he don’t let me eat with my team, he ask me to go alone on breakfast and lunch.

and why I cannot tell anyone about it in my family is , he is a married man with a newly born baby, I don’t want to ruin their lives because of him & obviously my family will never accept me if they get to know about that I am in a relationship with a married man but I cannot bear his torture and abuse more. I cry everyday that what should I do and everyday he threaten me to thrash me. he knows where I live where I work. he can come anytime he want.

and I am not able to bear it now. if I don’t tell anyone he will continue to torture me like this till the end of my life.

I want to give up .please help what should I do.