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  • #66341
    Ike
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    Tyler,

    Great if she wants to go out use it as a starting point to show the new you, I would not bring up all the other things I mentioned unless you feel its needed, that was to try and get your foot back in the door.

    It is more important to show her than tell her anyway. I would still apologize sometime in the future but its always better to build some good will (over time) before jumping in if you can, so save it for another day.

    Just be the guy you feel you should have been, and try to relax. Take it slow and easy time will heal especially if you show that you have actually changed. Just make sure you are happy with the changes you are making, because you will always have to look yourself in the mirror.

    Good luck

    #66315
    Ike
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    Oh we all make mistakes and continue to make them trust me.

    I believe you actually answered you own question, acknowledge that you know you hurt her and how you did that or get as close as you can, and then just be honest Tell her how you feel about her, especially that you did not know what love was until you met her (even if you think is sounds a little corny, its what you were thinking and that’s what counts), then tell her the second part that you find yourself “in a situation that (you have) never been before…”

    Simply start there and see where it leads you, be open, listen……work it out

    My personal experience is that we all tend to push away someone we love at one time or another most of the time it involves a conflict within us not them, to be honest still don’t understand it but Ive done it many a times myself.

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