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  • July 1, 2019 at 9:57 pm in reply to: Confused. Trying to understand who I am #301727
    Iiwii
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    • Hi Anita,

    He is a very decent person so I don’t know if I’m afraid of making a mistake by letting him go. I have unique interests in things so it’s hard to find someone who shares the same hobbies. I will continue to check my feelings to see if I think we should give it another try. If I feel like it’s not working out in my head then I will not waste his time and my time. We kind of talked about it two weeks ago to see how we feel about each other while being separated. That should give me some time to sort out my feelings. To really analyze the reasons for wanting to get back with him. Also, to really see if I’m really into same sex relationship. Thanks for your help Anita!

    June 28, 2019 at 12:08 am in reply to: Confused. Trying to understand who I am #301157
    Iiwii
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    Thank you Inky for your response. Will give lesbian dating site a try if I know for sure me and my ex are not getting back together. For now I think it’s good to be single so I can figure out what I want in a relationship

    June 28, 2019 at 12:05 am in reply to: Confused. Trying to understand who I am #301155
    Iiwii
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    Thank you for your response Anita. I’ll definitely consider it if me and my ex are not getting back together. I just need some time to clear up my head and process my feelings

    June 28, 2019 at 12:02 am in reply to: Confused. Trying to understand who I am #301153
    Iiwii
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    I’m in my early 30s. I’ve only had two serious relationships. The first one lasted for 9 years and the recent one which lasted for about 5yrs.

    What you mentioned about my low libido could be the reason for my attraction to women is a very interesting explanation actually. You could be right. It’s hard to tell since I haven’t been with a woman. I think if I had some experience then i would know the answer to that. But I have a feeling even being with a woman, if her libido is much higher than mine then that’s probably going to put a lot of stress on me. But then I don’t know for sure.. because the reason for my low libido could’ve been not being with the right gender. Thinking back, I don’t think I’ve ever fantasized about men.

    all I know is if we’re not getting back together, then I will definitely explore a relationship with a woman. I want to know if being with a woman will increase my libido or maybe I’m just being genetically programmed to have a very low libido.

    Thank you for your time!

     

     

     

     

     

     

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