I am so happy to have find a forum such as this so I can also share my struggle.

I was so in love with this guy who I worked with. Our relationship is so magical, I was so happy that time already imagining of getting married and growing old with him. I am already willing to move and live in India if permitted. And here comes I got pregnant. At first we were still ok, already planning to get married and raising the baby together. But when we ask his parents for a blessing, they wont agree. They even wanted my baby to be aborted or send for adoption wherein I disagree. when the baby was out, we are still okay but when my baby reach 1st month, he suddenly lost. after a month, he came and messaged me that he can’t marry me anymore. My world crushed that time and even begged him to talk to his parents. Telling me that its ok even if we don’t get marry as long as we are together with the baby and both of us is already enough for him gave me a slight hope that the relationship is still fine and we can still fight against all odds. But just 2 days ago, suddenly he told me that ” Talking about us and our future, I’m sorry there is nothing i can do. But about the baby, I’ll always be there for her, she is still my daughter and nothing can change that. I don’t want to give you hopes, if you find someone else please move on so I can too.” I world came tumbling down again, seems like I was betrayed and all he’s telling me are lies. Haven’t had proper sleep since that night. It’s just so painful specially I have a daughter which reminds me of him.
I know you guys can share some of your insights. Please help me cope up with this struggle…

I feel so lost now and I pity my daughter that she will grow up without a father. Every mother’s pain.