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  • January 18, 2017 at 7:38 pm in reply to: is there hope? #125672
    hhs
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    Hi anita,

    Yup, i’m disappointed. its been 1 month since i last saw her before sending her off for her school trip. have been waiting for this day. but things turn bad.

    Thanks for your encouragements and all of your advices, will note all of them down.
    will look forward and also apply what i learned. thank you so much… 🙂

    Hohs

    January 18, 2017 at 7:00 pm in reply to: is there hope? #125667
    hhs
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    Hi anita,

    Got her reply, she said for now she won’t be meeting me anytime soon. so i guess i have to move on and also take this as lesson and at the same getting to know myself even more. still hope there will be a miracle.

    Hohs

    January 15, 2017 at 5:26 pm in reply to: is there hope? #125350
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    Hi anita,

    Thank you so much for all your advice and key points. Will draft out what i want to say before i discuss with her on our issue. Will update here once i get everything is done.

    Hohs

    January 15, 2017 at 10:30 am in reply to: is there hope? #125302
    hhs
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    Hi anita,

    Thanks for sharing with me this few key points. totally agree with your points as she did mention some too. If the dinner do take place, i would like to share with her on the reflection that i did and also include some points that you mentioned. and also, i agreed, sometimes i do expect (answers or reassurance) from her unintentionally. which might also pressure her.

    Hohs

    January 15, 2017 at 12:20 am in reply to: is there hope? #125288
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    Hi Nina,

    Thanks for sharing the link and yup will go through the link and also for your advice. will be more caution and mindful about my action next time.

    Regards
    Hohs

    January 14, 2017 at 11:09 pm in reply to: is there hope? #125286
    hhs
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    Hi Nina,

    Thanks for replying, As for now, i just have to wait for her to back and send her a text before her flight. will ask her out for dinner which we had planned last week. i will see how things goes and i will try not to bring up about the past unless she mentions about it. what happen, happened. if she would give me another chance then i will apply what i had learned and not repeating my mistake this time round.

    January 14, 2017 at 11:00 pm in reply to: is there hope? #125285
    hhs
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    Hi xenopus tex,

    Thanks for replying. I realized my mistakes and i’m ready to start fresh with her. and honestly i regret it. for my concern now is, how can i win her back? and what can i do? because this happens when we are so far apart for a month and she will only be back next week.

    January 14, 2017 at 8:37 pm in reply to: is there hope? #125277
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    Thanks anita,

    We actually planned for a dinner next Thursday when she’s back. But I’m not sure if it will happen. Will ask her again once she’s back. If it’s does, how do I continue from there as in, knowing how the relationship is going to be. If it doesn’t, then I Guess that will be her answer.

    January 14, 2017 at 8:14 pm in reply to: is there hope? #125274
    hhs
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    Hi anita,

    Thanks for your advice. But isit ok to text her maybe 1 or 2 days from today to ask about our current situation or plans? And what can I write in the text?

    January 14, 2017 at 8:03 pm in reply to: is there hope? #125272
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    Hi anita,

    Thanks for your advice. For now I just hope that she will text me again and giving the relationship another chance. It’s been a day since her last text. Will approach her with the message you gave. I agree that only i can heal myself and no matter how many times she assure me, it’s still depends on myself to feel less insecure. I just need this chance.

    January 14, 2017 at 7:21 pm in reply to: is there hope? #125266
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    Hi anita,

    Thanks for your advice. but i guess it might be too late for the current situation. the current girl that i’m dating was away for a month and will be back next week from her studies. things turn out bad around 2 weeks ago. i was just sharing with her that, if i have to wait for a longer period for you to decide if we can start the relationship, many unwanted things might happen and we might not be together if we can’t handle it. and i’m afraid to lose her. she knows that i do feel insecure and i told her that it would be great if she can assure me not to overthink at times when i share my feelings to her. at first, she was ok, she comfort me even when she is busy with her school but i repeatedly share with her on this topic now and then, then she got annoyed. and resulting in the current situation.

    January 14, 2017 at 6:04 pm in reply to: is there hope? #125260
    hhs
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    Hi anita,

    Thanks for replying. In the previous relationship, i was with my ex for about 2 years. i was told by my ex that she will end the relationship soon but at that moment when i was told. so i was left hanging and at the same time, i make up for things hoping that it will prevent the relationship to end. but as time goes by for around 3-4 months she told me that she will end the relationship on my birthday, which was just in a few weeks time. i was very upset and i asked her not to. however, the relationship ended one week later after birthday.

    but currently, the current girl seem like ignoring me. i did text her for forgiveness. but i guess it might be to late.

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